Imagine that you chose family mediation to resolve your outstanding separation-related issues and that your efforts were successful. You managed to do this either in a single, longer mediation session or in a series of meetings during which the outstanding issues were addressed, one by one. What happens now?

The answer depends on a number of factors. The first question to consider is whether lawyers are involved. Let's treat this as our first scenario. Generally speaking, when the parties have lawyers who actually participate in the mediation session(s), they work with the mediator on crafting a document which the parties will sign before the sessions end, and which will represent a binding agreement between them as to the outstanding issues.

When we receive mediation-related calls into the office, Carolyn, who fields all such calls, is often asked the question posed in the title. It is difficult to answer it on the spot because the response depends on a number of factors: - some of which are within your control and some of which are not. Imagine getting into a cab and asking the driver how long the ride will take without telling him or her where you are going and without knowing whether there is any traffic along the way or road construction, for example.

The question in the title of this post is a common one, and there is still a lot of confusion in the public sphere about the difference between these two modalities of family dispute resolution (also known as FDR).

PC (parenting coordination or parenting coordinator) and PM (parenting mediation or parenting mediator) are similar in some respects but materially different in others. When you are searching for a professional to assist you in dealing with parenting issues arising out of a separation, it is important to understand the difference between these two modalities so you can target your search to the right individual and the right process.

Family mediation can address a variety of issues arising out of a separation. This includes “finances” and here, the reference can mean support, as in child and spousal support, or assets and debts (and how to address them once separation takes place). When you come to a family mediator to talk about any of these topics, you need to come prepared for the dialogue. More than that, you need to give the mediator tools with which to try and resolve the dispute. Let’s consider these tools in more detail.